He don't love these hoes, but they love him.

Ok so my bf doesn't watch the game but I've been a die hard fan since the beginning and I got him to watch it tonight...

The biggest part of the show that he identified with was TI TI's girl and the Malik affair.

I have to admit. When I saw Ti Ti's chick I thought she was one of the eclectic-intellectual-feminist-perhaps-NON-CHEATING-types...but I guess I was wrong because she WILLINGLY wanted to mess with Melik's womanizing ass??


WHY??? lol....


Is it the thrill of the chase?
The thrill of getting away with it?
I mean come on, she didn't even get an hourly salary like Malik's stripper "Flap Jacks" from last season!!




I was so hurt, man. Doesn't she know Malik "doesn't love these hoes?"

With that said, I was wondering if you ladies [and/or] gents feel like women always want the player, regardless of the good guy in front of them, because I think I too have been guilty of the whole i-want-a-guy-that-doesnt-give-two-shits-about-me syndrome too.

How can we fix this? Or am I just insane?

How to FALL in love...

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1. Don't Cheat


2. have the desire to fall in love


3. Be Open. (not in the thighs though, not yet).


4. Find a common ground. And tread confidently.


5. be encouraging


6. go on DATES (NOT chill at the crib). do this regularly.


7. listen to music together, and analyze it. (yes, this can be fun).


8. Meet each other's friends and family, and dont be judgemental.


9. Send random flirty, genuine, text messages.


10. Don't cheat.


11. Research the other person's zodiac, and try your best to prohibit any of the predicted clashings from occuring.


12. Be OK with the fact that someday you WILL "open up shop" for this person...


14. Don't Cheat ;)


GOOD LUCK!

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Oneof my new years resolutions was to start writing on this thing everyday, even if its one line.

Well clearly...

I've already effed up. smh.

Anyway, the other day on the radio I was listening to this song, I think it was like one of those songs with PITBULL yellin in it, you know, I forgot the name of it but I was STRAIGHT JAMMIN until I heard this line and I just got really pissed. He said:

she was worth the money.

I was like WTF???
No. dude, no. If this sounds like one of those feminist-doublestandard-having-rants, or a complaint-from-a-part-time-conformist-party-hopping-college-student....I DONT CARE!!



The phrase just played over and over in my head....she was worth the money?

Seriously. What thee hell...


The degradation with equating a female a HUMAN BEING, with the value of a car, home, or some other inanimate object...is just disgusting! I was genuinely surprised at how much it bothered me, but I rode on home in SILENCE.

I mean, I dont go out and purchase my friends and then at the end of the day kick my feet up and say..."gee, she/he sure was WORTH THE MONEY...all that lovely advice she/he gave me and all the time she/he spends with me...man I work hard everyday at work just so I can BUY me some her/him!"

I mean, I know in this instance the song is referring to a male paying for RELATIONS and not necessarily a RELATIONship...but gah-lee...how much easier would that whole process be if you got to know a person and the person actually wanted to give you relations in exchange for MERE companionship?! Amazing thought huh? I mean then you could spend your money paying a bill or even paying child support!

smh.

I mean come ON people....is it really that painstaking to develop real relationships with people????



Says the girl that can probably count her friends on one hand.

Well, I guess it is pretty hard.

(pause)

LOVE.

Just a few minutes ago, he pissed me off to no avail.

I swear I just wanted to ...

I wanted to.....

hurt him.

by leaving, but I couldn't.

I put the key in the ignition, went down the street

and I started to think.

What am I even mad about?

Then I thought...

man...its Christmas time and ish....(I don't even celebrate this pagan thing but hey)...

Then I thought...
I just can't leave him alone.

So I busted a u-turn

Then I thought....

He holds a part of my spirit...

And I'm always gonna need that.

♥